Or perhaps you meet someone, and it starts off hot and heavy. But suddenly, the communication starts to fade, and you find yourself chasing, yearning and waiting for their attention? If these scenarios sound familiar to you, this might be an indication that you dated or are dating someone with an avoidant attachment style.
We have been given tons of romance advice that tells us how we should act in relationships: Don't be too needy, don't get too jealous and have a strong sense of independence.
Our attachment system is a mechanism in our brain responsible for tracking and monitoring the safety and availability of our attachment figures. There are three primary attachment styles: secure, avoidant and anxious. They have an inherent fear of rejection and abandonment. Even a slight hint that something is wrong will activate their attachment system, and once activated they are unable to calm down until they get a clear indication from their partner that the relationship is safe.
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